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Whether you’re a newbie exploring your own identity or a seasoned veteran in the LGBTQ+ community, the age-old question remains: does she swing your way? You’ve probably scoured the internet for clues, but let’s be real, some of the stereotypical signs out there (like flannel shirts and short hair) can lead you astray.
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So, let’s dive into some of the typical indicators, as well as some more subtle ones, that might reveal her true colors. And trust me, the last tip is a game-changer!
1. Movie and TV Talk
An excellent starting point is to chat about what she’s been watching lately. Slip into the conversation that you’ve just seen something incredibly queer (think “Ratchet,” “Carol,” “Blue is the Warmest Colour,” “Portrait of a Lady on Fire,” “Vida,” “Killing Eve,” or “The Haunting of Bly Manor”) and observe her reaction. If she’s seen it too and is super enthusiastic about it, you might be in luck! Lesbians tend to froth over shows and movies with even the slightest lesbian storyline.
2. Nightlife Preferences
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Find out where she usually goes for a night out. If she’s a regular at gay clubs or known LGBT venues, that’s a strong sign pointing in the right direction.
3. Shoe Observation
Pay attention to her choice of footwear. While getting ready for a night out, my lesbian friend once remarked, “Oh, you’re putting your gay shoes on!” as I laced up my Converse. In my experience, Converse and Vans tend to be popular among women who love women. However, this indicator isn’t foolproof, especially when it comes to high femmes.
4. Musical Tastes
Try mentioning artists like G Flip, King Princess, or Girl in Red and gauge her reaction. If her face lights up with recognition and excitement, it could be another clue pointing towards her queer inclinations.
5. Buttoned-Up Style
Is she rocking a button-up shirt? Well, get ready to make your move! This is an incredibly reliable sign that she might be into you.
6. Feline Friends
Does she have a cat? While not a definitive indicator, it’s quite common among queer women. So, keep an eye out for that furry companion.
7. Casual Self-Disclosure
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Casually reveal your own queer identity in conversation. If she’s also queer, there’s a 99% chance she’ll reciprocate and share her truth with you.
8. The Power of Touch
Keep an eye out for eye contact and casual physical touch. Is she stealing glances at you? Moving closer? Playfully placing her hand on your leg when she laughs? These gestures suggest a certain level of closeness, and hopefully, it’s not just purely platonic.
9. Cat Lovers Revisited
Yes, we’re back to the cat observation. Again, it’s not foolproof, but it’s worth noting that many queer women do have a soft spot for these furry companions.
10. The Direct Approach
And of course, when all else fails, there’s no substitute for a straightforward question. It might seem intimidating, but trust me, I’ve never seen someone have a negative reaction. After all, why should they? Keep it simple, relaxed, and flash a smile as you ask, “So, what’s your dating situation? Are you into guys, girls, or both?” For an extra cheeky touch, you could try, “Do you want to go to Bunnings tomorrow?” (Yes, someone has successfully used this line on me).
So, go out there, have fun, and take your shot! Forget the brooding across-the-bar stare; we can do so much better than that. With these tips and a sprinkle of courage, you’ll be on your way to discovering if she shares your love for women.
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