It never ceases to amaze me how hard SM’s are judged.

On another board I was commenting on SD5’s behavior problems and developmental delays and all that. What really amazed me was when I described the hour long tantrums and said I wouldn’t take her out to eat in a restaurant because of how atrocious her table manners were (combing her hair with her fork, screwing around so much it would take her 40 minutes of constant reminding to eat, playing with her food, trying to get up and run around the table, etc) and people came unglued. I couldn’t believe how many people wanted “to tell that bitch off” and wondered what the REAL parents would think if they knew what I really thought about their little girl and on and on. Only one person, also a SM, kind of said what we all say here, basically that sometimes kids act like assholes, even stepkids sometimes act like assholes. If I had said DD acted like that no one would bat an eye but say SD acts like that and suddenly I’m a raging bitch who resents SD.

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I got in one conversation about a 22 year old BD whose BM had been dating a guy BD didn’t like for 4 years. BD was getting ready to graduate college and her mom had been promising her a vacation to a place they had had several girl trips in the past when she graduated ever since she started school. BM made the commented that she wanted to take the BF of 4 years with them and BD pitched a fit and said if BF goes she wouldn’t and everyone was buying into her telling her it was really crappy of her mom to spring that on her at the last minute (10 some odd months before the trip) and how she deserved that special time with BM as a reward for all her hard work and even going so far as to say BM should get rid of the BF completely because BD should come first.

I nearly lost my lunch reading that thread.

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