7. Hanging out in the right place makes a difference
This can probably improve your conversations and social experiences the quickest, in our opinion. If you go to a social activity you’re excited about or to a specific event in line with your interests, you’ll have much more to talk about and things in common with people already. This can be a game-changer for you.
So, look for events you think you’ll enjoy and that are relevant to your interests. You’ll find people who you can talk to easily about the same thing without having to navigate a room. Check out meetup.com to see if there are any events near you.
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8. Going to bars/clubs most times isn’t a great place to talk
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Sometimes we go to the bar to relax, blow off some steam, or try to make friends. It does happen that people can make new friends at the bar, but it’s not as organic and easy. A bar is usually for a couple of people or a group of friends to meet up. It’s not a great place to have easy, in-depth conversations, most of the time. It can be loud, people are drunk, people won’t usually mingle outside of the social circle they came with and it can be dark. Not great things if you’re trying to meet people and maybe part of the reason you might be thinking, “why don’t people talk to me?”.
So, this can also be a reason why people aren’t talking to you. A bar isn’t the best place to make new friends, especially if you’re going solo.
9. “Why don’t people talk to me?” Because there’s no plan!
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Having a plan before you go out to socialize can be a huge advantage. If you’re new and a little nervous to socialize, having conversation starters ready to use, and who you might talk to, especially if you know who’s going to be at the event, will all make conversations easier. When you don’t have a plan the conversation can die down and the other person just moves on. This can make it seem like no one wants to talk to you.
10. Listening isn’t your strength
If you’re not a good listener people will notice and won’t want to talk to you. It’s that simple. People want to be heard and understood. If someone feels they’re not given a chance to talk or express themselves they’ll walk away. Give them space to talk, show that you’re present, make eye contact, nod, and repeat what they say back to them, and you’ll seem like an angel. Everyone will want to talk to you because you’re a good listener.
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